old old wounds

I want to tell you my secret. Not long ago, I was engaged to my now husband. We’d met in Africa, and fallen into a frenzy of love and hopes and dreams. I’d never considered that I was breaking new grounds by falling in love with a Black person, an African. All I knew was … More old old wounds

Reminding me

I don’t what it is about motherhood that makes you all nostalgic, but it really really does. Perhaps it’s the knowledge that I can not be as fully reckless and fearless as I used to be as a young 20something. I had no concern of death or kidnapping, and I enjoyed living in the slums … More Reminding me

I was tired, you see, and not in any mood to meet handsome strangers. It must have been over 100 degrees at 3 in the morning, and I don’t remember meeting you. I vaguely remember making a mental note to stay away from you, you tall, dark and handsome stranger, who would, undoubtedly fall in … More

calm and crying.

It’s that time again. That Bi-annual time of year when I resurrect this lonesome blog with a new post! Aren’t you all so lucky. Again, in the heat of life and schools and africa and babies, I tend to put writing on the wayside. It is not my intention to seem silent or far, but … More calm and crying.

and here we go.

Ok, sorry for being a lameface and not writing on this thing anymore. When I get super busy the first thing to go is communication with the outside world, which is probably the last thing that should go, but hey, in my defense I WAS super busy. So, not sure how much people do or … More and here we go.

antsy pantsy.

Oh lawdy. I feel it again. The urge to move. To meander. To pack up my (few) things and move across the world. This feeling is inevitable when the majority of your adult life has been spend doing exactly that. Since I was 19 I have been able to pack almost all my belongings into … More antsy pantsy.

11 bests.

Alright, it’s time for my annual list of bestest things that happened this last year. So so so much happened in 2011, and it will be hard to narrow in down, but here are the 11 best things that happened: 1) Obviously, numero uno on the list is OUR BABY DAUGHTER, born on July 26. … More 11 bests.